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How to Keep a Well Being Journal
A couple of years ago I read an article about keeping a Well Being Journal. It offered a structured way to record my emotions every day. Years before I'd seen a similar idea designed for students while working as a volunteer at a local primary school and thought that I'd give it a go. When we were homeschooling, I found that my children were more inclined to stick at developing a habit, such as daily journaling, if I did it too.
In my Well Being Journal, I record at the top of an entry how I am feeling. The idea is to use only one word and then, in another colour, write why I think I feel like that. Beneath this, in a third colour, I write what lessons I have learned from the experiences that gave rise to that emotional state. There are no right or wrong answers; all answers are valid.
The Well Being Journal isn't the kind of journal I write in at the end of the day. It's a barometer of my emotional life. Over time I've found that it helps to balance the stress I experience every day. I've discovered that being happy and excited can drain my energy levels in much the same way as being anxious or angry. By drawing attention to my fluctuating emotions and noticing recurring patterns I've learned to manage them and use them to my advantage.
For example, I find it easier now to stay focused on what I want to achieve and thus feel more organised. This means I can do more of what I want to each day. I feel that I understand myself better - why I do things the way I do - and this means I am a lot more accepting of my strengths and limitations. And I'm finding that I don't feel bad about not feeling good or happy all the time. It's as though I'm not holding onto my emotional state as much as I used to; I'm able to let go of them and allow the emotional energy to flow, rather than bottle it up in inappropriate ways.
I keep my Well Being Journal in a safe place in my bedroom, where I know it is private and will be respected as 'for my eyes only'. I don't fill it out every day, but some days I find myself adding two or more entries. Looking back through past entries is like having a conversation with a really close and trusted friend; it is easy to see the areas in my life I need to work on to feel okay about myself.
Studies have shown that writing in a journal (or blog or similar) increases your chances of reaching your goals and improves your resilience. My Well Being Journal helps me stay positive.
The following article by 2005 Doreene Clement is reprinted with permission: first published in Metamorphosis: Tools for Transformation a weekly newsletter by Peter Shepard www.trans4mind.com
Within the pages of a Well Being Journal or diary, you can record and track what serves and provides for you, and what does not. Whether you already keep a journal or want to start a Well Being Journal, it is an amazing, supportive tool that you can give to yourself.
A WBJ is an easy, simple and rewarding way to record and track your spiritual, emotional and physical journey. It has been proven that keeping a journal provides and supports in so many ways:
To start your WBJ you can use a notebook, blank book or a journal. You can also use your computer to record either your daily or weekly thoughts. If you keep a journal you can add this idea to what you are already doing.
To start your WBJ, date the entry and then ask yourself how you felt today. What was the most important feeling for you today? But, answer that question with only one word, i.e., happy, sad, angry, confused, joyful, excited, anxious, worried, sick, numb, afraid, lost, grateful, etc. After you have your one word for the day, write that word in your journal. Then, with a different colored pen write your answer to the question, why?
For example if you choose angry, ask yourself, "Why do I feel angry?" Then, journal that answer. On some days you may have more than one word, one experience with its feelings to journal, so journal each separately.
Next, in a third color of pen, journal what you learned from your experience. What did that experience give to you? What did that experience teach you? What was your lesson?
Remember to set your journal where you will see it every day: On your kitchen table, on your desk, in your briefcase or by your night stand. Also, skipping a day or days is okay and is a part of keeping a journal.
Remember to tell yourself the truth. This is your journal and it is a relative reflection of your experiences. Whatever you write is perfect.
Doreene Clement is the creator of " The 5 Year Journal ." Studies have shown that by using journaling you will increase your chances of reaching your goals (career goals, financial goals, fitness goals, relationship goals) by as much as 82%! It's also proven that people who follow this method easily move through challenges and adversity and it helps them, more than anything else, to keep focused on their reason for being.
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