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Enhancing Creativity Through Play

© Beverley Paine

Many homeschooling parents are frightened to let their children "play all day" - they feel the need to introduce structured activities which lead their children in the pursuit of knowledge of skills. For many this is the definition of education. Children have a vary different view of what learning is and how it happens.

Play is a very important aspect of it and as a parent you can capitalise on your children's natural tendency toward play in many ways by becoming more involved in the play process. A natural spin off derived from doing this in a conscious way is to increase the creative potential of your children. It also can lead to gains in mental age, ideational fluency and intelligence.

Definitions of creativity are many and varied, and relate either to personal traits and characteristics of the creative person, the creative process itself, or in terms of the product or outcome of the creativity. The creatively gifted child has been described as "the child who comes up with many, different, unusual, or detailed solutions to conventional tasks", indicating an ability to engage fluency, flexibility, originality and elaboration in the thought process. Playfulness has been characterised by freedom, spontaneity, joy, and exploratory actions, with motives and processes involved in play similar to those attributed to the creative process.

Becoming involved in the play process includes direct and deliberate participation in all facets of play. It means considering evaluating your present attitudes, rules and other controls you place on play, and those of other adults who have access to your children. It also means looking critically at the physical environment. Do all those things foster and nurture creativity in your children?

Research into play and creativity have revealed that parents who foster creativity within their children tend to:

  • be more conceptually abstract in their thinking;
  • promote fantasy and curiosity in early childhood, providing a context as well as a model for play;
  • take personal satisfaction in parenting, have patience in communicating with;
  • their children, are willing to play with their youngsters and tell them stories, and enjoy make-believe themselves;
  • de-emphasise sex roles in relating to their children's play preferences;
  • exhibit low compulsivity, low dominance, and low authoritarianism;
  • be high in acceptance of regression and high in independence-granting;
  • be flexible and open-minded in accepting alternative and unusual uses and procedures that children can often adopt for toys and games;
  • be able to see things from the perspective of the child and in turn interpret his or her needs;
  • possess the ability to depart from routine procedures in purchasing toys, and
  • helping the child to use toys and games in ways that increase the child's range of associations to different play objects and procedures.

The nature of the play environment is also very important, and a less restrictive environment increases not only the range of your children's potential responses, but also their later motivation to respond to novelty. Such environments are:

  • safe and encourage children to freely explore;
  • open infinite possibilities for co-operative, role playing games that continuously change after old themes are exhausted;
  • permit children to create games spontaneously without guidance and dependence on adults;
  • permit the child to succeed at play tasks at his/her own level of ability;
  • contain abstract play forms that can stimulate creative, make-believe play, and
  • include equipment that satisfies the child's instincts for "secretive" play with sheltered places that still maintain a degree of visibility from outside.

Which toys you select for your children can help enhance creativity too. Toys and equipment which are especially useful are those which encourage exploration and discovery and include;

  • blocks and like toys of varying shapes, sixes, colours, textures and materials, both interlocking and plain;
  • dolls and equipment used for role-play;
  • access to free play with water and sand;
  • dress-ups and dramatic play props;
  • puppets;
  • building centres where toys are "real" and work, enhancing creativity and physical co-ordination;
  • art and craft supplies;
  • musical instruments, and
  • math and science oriented devices.

The research also found that too much emphasis on academics and test performance, and a discouraging of free play tends to result in a squelching of creativity. So it is important to balance such activities with structured play episodes, both with and without your involvement, and to allow lots of opportunity for free play and times where individual children can be alone, either in play or contemplation.

Increased opportunities for play has been shown to reduce frustration and boredom in learners in classroom situations. When parents actively promote and value children's playing, and integrate play with learning opportunities, children are able to develop more fully their creative potential, and the benefits are felt across all areas of growth and development, especially academic.

Reference: D. Ellermeyer "Enhancing creativity through play: a discussion of parental and environmental factors", 1993, published in Early Child Development and Care.)

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